I am coiled up because I have to be, the shift in the conversation in this country has gone from policy, positions, opinions to values and more ominously to identity, immutable traits that I can't and don't want to change, nor will I mock and insult them by pretending that I am something else or deny them. My identity is of equal value, has no intrinsic fault, is no more guilty in the balance of history than any others and has built societies that despite being told are inherently evil, most people of other identities really want to live in, weird.
Policies, positions, etc... are tradeable things. We can give and take on them, this tax rate up or down, this policy more stringent or lax and we can change our opinions on matters as time and circumstances change. We can't change who or what we are fundamentally (race, gender, sexual orientation, heritage) and the Left of late is WAY more interested and invested in setting up that oppositional construct where basically its all other identities against one/two others.
What did "they" think would or will happen? That this COA of Identity Politics would not cause a defensive reaction in those one/two groups? Not all of the individuals in that group are willing to be put upon and as their strategy unfolds and the collaborators of said one/two groups will eventually realize they will just be the last horses in line at the glue factory, some of them are not going to be down with the program. They will fight back. Legal and political means thankfully for right now but if you follow the Intersectional/Critical Race Theory out to its logical conclusion, it will destroy this imperfect but aspiring to be democratic republic multiracial society. Maybe it's how it will end, fulfilling the cliche that like empires are never murdered, they commit suicide.
There is no common ground with those who think you are inherently evil. Jewish people know this terrible and depressing fact of life very well unfortunately, some people will just always be your enemy. I'm not happy about division and I'm not about promoting it but I am realistic about accepting it.
I respect your opinions and postings on BO, don't view you as a foe, there's a gradual spectrum we all fall somewhere on in the eyes of others who are reasonable. As to the country and the pledge you cited, it is indivisible but it is not immutable. If the people change, what they want changes, the way they live changes, what they believe changes then why not the order under with they live change?