Right.
The MAF doesn't have a patch problem. The MAF may in fact have an O-6 problem. Until CC's who grew up with patches reach the O-6 level (talking my own community here) it won't stop. It's starting... But until there is an across the board understanding of the roles and responsibilities, it won't change. Case in point, there is a whole reg that governs how patches will be used, placed, developed. AFI 11-415 I think. It was hell convincing wing level leadership that it is a no-shit reg that applied to their wing. It took a unit compliance inspection ding for squadron leadership to pull their heads out. That's not good, and admittedly was almost five years ago, but it's getting better...
And there will always be the one who gets shit done, who's smart, has a good rep, and good hands, who gets pulled into the bosses circle (read: exec, though I've never been one) so he can get pushed. That's how the game is played. Not for all but for some. You can rage against it or accept and drive on. What shouldn't be happening is wing/cc's hoarding the smart people, insulating their nests. Doing it to push a guy, okay. Doing it to the detriment of the squadrons, tread lightly.
To Champ's point: The fire and forget mentality is something that happens everywhere, it's just that it is exasterbated in the MAF because you have plenty of folks that spent their careers inside an insular community, generally devoid of integration with the rest of the USAF, in command of units that are now doing more integrating, both in training and in mission execution -- and these captains and majors wearing the target on their arms are speaking a language they don't speak, doing things they were never trained to do. Not just with other Air Force units but with the Army too. So they are forced to trust them.
Once proven, they go back to that well... Again, and again, and again. I've been on the receiving and am now on the giving end of having patches working for me - they're the easy button. It takes disciplined leadership to do it right and make sure everyone, not just your bright shiney project, benefits from having them in the squadron. YMMV.
Chuck