Maybe so.
I gave him his T-38 academics checkout, did his sims, flew with him, and went TDY a couple times with him. An entirely positive experience.
Talking to some others like yourself, I am in the minority.
But I'll take BG Ritchie any day over many "leaders" I've met... both personally and professionally.
Back to the subject,... yes, I don't wear scarves anymore either. Unlike some of you, I was around when it was actually required for us to wear them. But rather than dismiss it as "ghey", I'd say it is simply a past tradition that is...
Oh wait! We cannot have past traditions and heritage! I forgot, sorry.
OK, back to your regularly scheduled episode of "Squadron Heritage Confiscation".