I don't think victim "crap" runs rampant on here. Sure, people complain about the promotion process, planning Christmas parties, and stuff like that, but that's just good, old-fashioned sport bitching.
Maybe you're just having a bad day, but I think you probably need to take a step back and take a look in the mirror. Can we not have a reasonable discussion about how some people may have a different experience than you? If this makes you defensive, it is probably because it touches a specific nerve inside you. I mean, we all believe readily that some commanders play favorites. Is it that much of a stretch to believe that other commanders play "least favorites"?