See, that's the thing.  I was never told that I was a shitty officer.  Not once was I told how I could improve my performance as a pilot and officer.  Even when I asked.  I was always told I was doing what I needed to do, I was upgraded on time, and I showed job progression.  Then I volunteered for VSP, was denied, and was passes over 9 months later.  Yep, you're correct.  Douche.