apologies for the way too specific problem, and hoping to find a solution on a forum.
anyways, for knowledge sake, I was diagnosed with chronic ear infection and was given allergy medicine (loratadine tablets and fluticasone propionate nasal spray) by my doctor. when I went to my ENT, she cleaned the wax out of my ears and gave me ciprofloxdexameth otic susp ear drops which helped with hearing loss and the middle ear infection.
things have been going good so far (knock on wood), so hopefully this can help anyone else who runs into the issue.