Oh trust me, that's has been my mantra for the last few months. I literally hadn't spoken to my Det in about 3 months leading up to yesterday. I understand the paper orders are the vital thing here, the fact they are arguably "late" is why I'm starting to worry again. Bottom line is I'm not bothered so much by the delays as I am about how no one seems to know what is going on, and aren't keen on trying to find out.
For what it's worth I called up the APFC hotline in the evening to see what they could tell me, and the very helpful tech told me that my orders were listed as having actually been sent to the Det back in September! Also said that there were incomplete portions on my records, whatever that means. He gave my the officer accessions # so I'll inquire in the morning. Assuming from the former though, my Det either overlooked my package, lost it, or something else happened I can't think of, but they should have told me back in September. Not too pleased about that.